Episode 260 - Four Pillars of Author Success with Emma Dhesi
October 15, 2024
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Emma Dhesi discusses FOUR PILLARS OF AUTHOR SUCCESS: Awareness, Acceptance, Growth, and Fun. She shares insights into the ups and downs of the writing journey and how to maintain focus and joy throughout the process. We discuss the importance of aligning your plans with your goals and of staying true to your writing style and pace. We also touch on the psychological aspects of writing, marketing, and promotion. And Emma provides advice on maintaining balance and avoiding burnout while pursuing writing as a career or passion.
Emma Dhesi, bestselling author and certified book coach, educates and inspires first-time authors to fulfil a calling and write their debut novel. Drawing from her own success and training, Emma guides writers to finish their first book through detailed feedback, accountability check-ins, and compassionate support in her year-long 1:1 mentorship. Emma lives in Edinburgh with her husband, three children, three cats, and is passionate about helping authors achieve their dreams through her individualized mentoring.
Links
Emma's Links:
https://emmadhesi.com/
https://www.youtube.com/@emmadhesi
Four Pillars document for listeners of The Indy Author Podcast: https://emmadhesi.com/IndyAuthor
Previous Appearances on The Indy Author Podcast:
Episode 186 - The Power of a Book Coach with Emma Dhesi
Matty's Links:
Affiliate links
Events
https://emmadhesi.com/
https://www.youtube.com/@emmadhesi
Four Pillars document for listeners of The Indy Author Podcast: https://emmadhesi.com/IndyAuthor
Previous Appearances on The Indy Author Podcast:
Episode 186 - The Power of a Book Coach with Emma Dhesi
Matty's Links:
Affiliate links
Events
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Summary
This week on The Indy Author Podcast, Matty Dalrymple talks with Emma Dhesi, a bestselling author and certified book coach, about the "Four Pillars to Author Success." Emma shares her observations and experiences from over ten years in the writing community, focusing on the challenges and triumphs authors face. The discussion revolves around how writers, whether new or established, can navigate the journey of writing with the help of these four pillars: Awareness, Acceptance, Growth, and Fun.
Pillar #1: Awareness
Emma emphasizes the importance of being aware of one's position in the writing journey. She describes how writers often experience ups and downs, not only in the writing process but also in the stages of publication and marketing. Awareness involves recognizing where you stand on this path, whether you're just starting or have published multiple books. Emma encourages writers to acknowledge their progress and understand that every writer is on their own unique journey.
Pillar #2: Acceptance
Acceptance is the second pillar, where Emma discusses the need to be at peace with where you are in your writing career. She highlights the tendency to constantly chase the next milestone, often leading to unnecessary stress. Acceptance doesn’t mean complacency; rather, it's about acknowledging your journey and continuing to work towards your goals without beating yourself up. Emma advises writers to stay in their lane and run their own race, doing the work necessary to progress.
Pillar #3: Growth
The growth pillar represents the challenges writers face, from drafting to revising, and learning the ropes of publishing and marketing. Emma notes that every step, from writing to promoting the book, is filled with opportunities for personal and professional growth. She reassures writers that growth is the most rewarding part of the process, despite the difficulties and insecurities that arise. Emma reflects on how each book she writes presents new challenges, pushing her to improve her craft.
Pillar #4: Fun
The final pillar, fun, reminds writers to find joy in their creative endeavors. Emma points out that the seriousness of publishing can overshadow the original joy that led writers to put pen to paper. It's essential to celebrate milestones, both big and small, and to remember the excitement that initially sparked a passion for writing. Simple acts of recognition, such as treating yourself after completing a draft, can maintain the fun in the writing process.
Beyond Writing: Applying the Pillars
Emma and Matty discuss how these pillars extend beyond writing into areas like marketing and promotion. Emma encourages writers to align their marketing strategies with their personal preferences, whether it's blogging, social media, or podcasting. The key is to feel comfortable and authentic in your promotional efforts. Emma also advises not to let marketing fears prevent you from finishing or sharing your book. Recognizing the value of your work and communicating it effectively to the right audience can transform your approach to marketing.
Understanding and Overcoming Hesitation
The conversation also explores the reasons behind writers' hesitations to market their books. Matty suggests examining whether hesitancy stems from discomfort with promotion or doubts about the book's quality. Being honest about these feelings can help address underlying issues and improve both the writing and marketing process. The discussion touches on the psychology of publishing and the impact of money mindset on authors' willingness to promote their work.
Conclusion
Emma Dhesi's insights on the Four Pillars to Author Success offer a valuable roadmap for writers navigating their creative journeys. By cultivating awareness, acceptance, growth, and fun, authors can not only enhance their craft but also enjoy the process of bringing stories to life. Whether you're facing the challenge of writing a first draft or promoting your latest release, these pillars provide a framework for achieving success on your own terms.
Pillar #1: Awareness
Emma emphasizes the importance of being aware of one's position in the writing journey. She describes how writers often experience ups and downs, not only in the writing process but also in the stages of publication and marketing. Awareness involves recognizing where you stand on this path, whether you're just starting or have published multiple books. Emma encourages writers to acknowledge their progress and understand that every writer is on their own unique journey.
Pillar #2: Acceptance
Acceptance is the second pillar, where Emma discusses the need to be at peace with where you are in your writing career. She highlights the tendency to constantly chase the next milestone, often leading to unnecessary stress. Acceptance doesn’t mean complacency; rather, it's about acknowledging your journey and continuing to work towards your goals without beating yourself up. Emma advises writers to stay in their lane and run their own race, doing the work necessary to progress.
Pillar #3: Growth
The growth pillar represents the challenges writers face, from drafting to revising, and learning the ropes of publishing and marketing. Emma notes that every step, from writing to promoting the book, is filled with opportunities for personal and professional growth. She reassures writers that growth is the most rewarding part of the process, despite the difficulties and insecurities that arise. Emma reflects on how each book she writes presents new challenges, pushing her to improve her craft.
Pillar #4: Fun
The final pillar, fun, reminds writers to find joy in their creative endeavors. Emma points out that the seriousness of publishing can overshadow the original joy that led writers to put pen to paper. It's essential to celebrate milestones, both big and small, and to remember the excitement that initially sparked a passion for writing. Simple acts of recognition, such as treating yourself after completing a draft, can maintain the fun in the writing process.
Beyond Writing: Applying the Pillars
Emma and Matty discuss how these pillars extend beyond writing into areas like marketing and promotion. Emma encourages writers to align their marketing strategies with their personal preferences, whether it's blogging, social media, or podcasting. The key is to feel comfortable and authentic in your promotional efforts. Emma also advises not to let marketing fears prevent you from finishing or sharing your book. Recognizing the value of your work and communicating it effectively to the right audience can transform your approach to marketing.
Understanding and Overcoming Hesitation
The conversation also explores the reasons behind writers' hesitations to market their books. Matty suggests examining whether hesitancy stems from discomfort with promotion or doubts about the book's quality. Being honest about these feelings can help address underlying issues and improve both the writing and marketing process. The discussion touches on the psychology of publishing and the impact of money mindset on authors' willingness to promote their work.
Conclusion
Emma Dhesi's insights on the Four Pillars to Author Success offer a valuable roadmap for writers navigating their creative journeys. By cultivating awareness, acceptance, growth, and fun, authors can not only enhance their craft but also enjoy the process of bringing stories to life. Whether you're facing the challenge of writing a first draft or promoting your latest release, these pillars provide a framework for achieving success on your own terms.